Why You Feel Like You’re ‘Too Much’ and ‘Not Enough’ at the Same Time
The core split emotional neglect often leaves behind - and how it shows up in your self-worth.
The Pain of Being Seen for What You Do, Not Who You Are
High achievement can be a mask. So can emotional competence.
When You’re the High-Functioning Child of a Dysfunctional Family
You learned to survive by staying composed — but the cost may be intimacy.
Is It Love or Is It Longing? Understanding Attachment Confusion
When closeness hurts and distance does too, something deeper is at play.
If You’ve Always Been the One Who Helps Others, What Is It Like to Be Helped?
Many of us were trained to care for others, not to receive care ourselves.
The Ache for Aliveness: Longing Beyond Survival
Sometimes, what looks like depression is actually a hunger for vitality.
What I Wish You Knew About People Who Seem Fine
A reflection on the hidden world of high-functioning pain - and what healing can look like.